Mixed signals... does she like me or not?

First of all congrats on being brave and letting her know you like her :D Second, girls are so complicated and dramatic....My brain hurts trying to understand them and I'm Girl :P From, little experience I haave, I might not give any good advice. I would ask: if you are capable of getting over her and ignoring her come ons or mixed signals? and remain friends. Or, can you see yourself, not being friends w/ this girl, for the sake of your heart and sanity? Just sayn' I know, if If a girl I'm crushing on is giving me mixed signals, I would obsess over her and think of ways to get her to date me.