What five traits would you look for in a soul mate?

1. likes me for who i am and does not try and change me, not control freak. 2. must love family-they are a large part of my life also must love children - for when i am older i would like to have children. 3.must like my friends. 4.must be romantic yet not cheap also must stand up for his woman. 5. must be funny yet not rude about it, professional yet with a wild side. thats my ideal soul mate now what about yours?