My mom is angry with me for being irresponsible, now I'm grounded, HELP?

My older brother and I are both pretty lazy I guess. Since summer break started we've both been sleeping in until 9 or 10 which is too late in my mom's book especially because she wants our beds made, rooms clean, and music practice done before 10:00 am. She made that rule about five months ago and it never stuck because my brother and I would always make our beds/clean our rooms, etc way past 10:00 am and she complained once in awhile but it was never really a big issue until now. I haven't hung out with my boyfriend for almost two months now because my mom thought we were hanging out too much (we hung out like once every two weeks or so) and so we were going to hang out on Thursday at the beach, but then right after I told my mom he could go with us, she said we aren't going because I'm too irresponsible and need to learn how to do things right or I won't be hanging out with anyone for however long she chooses. My bf and I are drifting apart a bit now because we hardly see each other..not to the point of breaking up but it's still not good. Pretty much my fault this time I guess. Another thing is, my mom is always complaining about how no one does the dishes for her, or feeds the animals for her (which I actually do whenever she asks me to) and that the house is always a mess (even though people always compliment her on how clean it is.) So now my parents have decided that I can't be with anyone until I have this routine established of doing everything before 10:00 am. So what can I do to stay on track with this so I don't spend my summer alone?